There are a lot of superstitions surrounding weddings, none more so than when is lucky and unlucky to get married.
This applies not only to the day of the week, although this has largely been rendered irrelevant today, with most weddings taking place on a Saturday because it fits in with the working week.
However, when it comes to which month is unlucky or lucky to marry, there’s also plenty of superstition and May is the one month one should avoid.
Married when the year is new, he’ll be loving, kind and true.
When February birds do mate, You wed nor dread your fate.
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you’ll know.
Marry in April when you can, Joy for Maiden and for Man.
Marry in the month of May, and you’ll surely rue the day.
Marry when June roses grow, over land and sea you’ll go.
Those who in July do wed, must labour for their daily bred.
Whoever wed in August be, many a change is sure to see
Marry in September’s shrine, your living will be rich and fine.
If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry.
If you wed in bleak November, only joys will come, remember.
When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.
Marry in May and you’ll live to rue the day
The explanation comes from a website about wedding superstitions:
May has been considered an unlucky month to marry in for a number of reasons. In Pagan times the start of summer was when the festival of Beltane was celebrated with outdoor orgies. This was therefore thought to be an unsuitable time to start married life. In Roman times the Feast of the Dead and the festival of the goddess of chastity both occurred in May. The advice was taken more seriously in Victorian times than it is today. In most Churches the end of April was a busy time for weddings as couples wanted to avoid being married in May. Queen Victoria is thought to have forbidden her children from marrying in May.
June was considered to be a lucky month to marry in because it is named after Juno, the Roman goddess of love and marriage.
The Summer as a whole was considered a good time to marry and this is partly to do with the sun’s association with fertility. In Scotland one popular custom was for the bride to “walk with the sun” to bring her good. She would walk from east to west on the south side of the church and then continue walking around the church three times.
So there you go. And to think that May is considered the “bride’s month” in some countries… These days, people are less superstitious, so old wives’s tales probably hold no water now. Nevertheless interestign stuff.
